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Post by bahnoo on Aug 18, 2006 1:06:03 GMT 7
Hi Bros Was talking to T75 big bro the other day in Hatyai. was telling him that i want to start a story about my relationship with a thai girl for the past 12 yrs. I will talk about the 2 ex tirak that i got hurt badly. so stay tune on the journey of bahnoo, sing- thai relationships.....
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Post by bahnoo on Aug 18, 2006 1:17:40 GMT 7
1994 Jun being send for attachment over in butterworth camp. stay there for 1yr mission.
My first day @ work. my sgp admin come find me, ask me wanna go hatyai or not. i look @ him blur blur said go there for what he said go there to book girl lar. lol i said oh ok lor can why not.
nb first time go i try to act cool. knn when i reach hatyai, we stay in Hatyai Palace. the hotel was very new @ that time. think about 1yr old only.
So we check in n then go opps. of the hotel. @ that time only 3 hotels was there.
My friend took me to AL Karaoke next to merlin. now AL no longer ard.
Go inside AL. OKT come talk to me. then he press bell, all the girls come n sit infront of me. my 2 cb friend went into hiding cos i was trying to act cool, cb i was blur blur when i saw so may girls infront of me to choose lol. then i got panic when i cant see my friends. then okt point to me where they are.
i cool down n start looking @ the girls, i actually saw a girl i like. i point to the the girl but okt said cannot this girl already been taken. why cos they are not sitting infront of me. then my friend come to me said that one is his tirak oops. lol
so bo bian i go book those that is sitting infornt of me. i book a girl call ah hare.
went back to the room with her. knn my LJ standup lol knn i was touching her all over. knn i was so damn horny lol bo bian my first time ma. lol
well i book her 2 days, nb i bonk her 12 times in 2 days. day 1 7 times, day 2 5 times. She just open flower for 4 mths only. she was still tight n watery. damn song the feeling. even she sleeping i disturb her pussy she was moaning n water was fast to come. anyway something turn me off n i stop coming to h. city. cos she took drug on the 2nd nite. i hate pple take drugs so i stop going after that.
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Post by bahnoo on Aug 18, 2006 1:46:35 GMT 7
well i stop for almost for 6mth until my cb men came up to replace my other guys. nb he keep pestering me to go. plus my buddy ask me go also. so LL go with them lor.
The bro who's tirrak i wanted to book the 1st time i go there said he will ask his tirrak to intro a good friend of hers to me.
so ok lor i go lor.
nb once i reach h. city. as usual we go to h. palace n stay. cos it was one of the nice hotel to stay @ that time. my friend tirak came over to my room n tell me her friend is on the way to my room.
When she came, @ one look i like her alot. she SYT, she only 18 when i know her. her names ah men. we were together for 4 days n i grew to like her alot.
everyweek end i started to go up see her. 1 mth pass n i find out that she owe okt money. well she use to work in phom 88 in channivate soi 1.
so i help her settle her money but it was a bad move @ that time. cos i always go back with her to shop n the okt notice i like my girl alot. so he push up the price of what she owe. i LL had to pay 40,000 baht for it.
after that she pack her bags n we move in to a room in Kimyong market area. her room n my friend tirak room is side by side.
During that time i was very very happy. cos we very loving. well i was new in thai relationship. thinking i have found the one i really love finally.
after about 1mth things start to change. her mom start asking money from her n my tirak cant give her alot n her mom start to sell her younger sister to the okt for money. 3rd sister came out to work also kanna open flower.
Elder sister same age as me already open flower for 3 yrs n have a kid. the kid belong to a malaysian but dont know where he have gone to.
my tirak got worry cos she worry her 4th sister who was only 15 may be sold to okt if she dont give her mother money. so she went back to work....
So much of 1mth happiness. well after she went back to work. i still give her 1 mth 10k. @ that time 10k is alot. booking a girl @ that time is 600 to 800 baht.
after 2 mths of working, she went back to payao to see her family. when she came back hatyai she told me that her motosai spoilt wants to buy one for her family. so i give her money to buy one.
then we start going out with her good friends. during dinner we will go to her good friend working place to eat n then wait for them to finish work liao. come back to my hotel room to eat n play.
it was fun. i started to plan bringing my tirak back to singapore and get married. i told her about it n she agree. so i went back n tell my parents about it. they objected but i insist to marry my tirak so in the end they have no choice n let me do what i want to do.
I went back to h. city to see her every weekend. till one day, my friend's tirak came to me n tell me. something have happen to my relationship with my tirak. i ask her what happen.
She then start to tell me that everytime i go back to butterworth, she will ask the good friend to come to the hotel. ok u guys must be wonder why she stay in the hotel. well she owe okt money again n had to stay in the farm house. i dont like the place she stay cos it dirty n air not very good. so i always book 1 day for her b4 i go back so she can have a good rest b4 she go back to work. so i pay for that day booking also.
Then i ask my friend tirak. my tirak good friend come hotel nothing mah. just talk only mah. then she said not talking is having sex. i said how she know then she told me that she went to the hotel room n find my tirak.
When my tirak open the door that guy clothes are on the chair. so what do u think..... I got very upset. i tell myself maybe my friend tirak just jealous about me n my tirak. so i ignore what she said. my friend n her tirak keep telling me. i tell them stop it. i dont want to hear it anymore. i dont believe what u said....
So weeks past. my tirak looks very loving to me, we still have sex n have a good time during sex. she never let me wear cap. so i thought she love me that is why she allow me not to use it. in actual fact during that time using a cap is not a normal thing. those days condom was not educated to this girls so they dont really know about using caps for safety. most of the girls take morning after pills to prevent preg. that is why @ that time u can see girl who is 18 or 19yo but they look old due to the pills.
During the stay with her. my mind keep thinking about what my friend n his tirak have tell me. then i start to look back, yes indeed there something fishy about my tirak n her good friend. they always look @ each other n smile but i choose to ignore cos maybe they are very good friend so they are like this.
then one fine day while she went to the toilet n bath. i open her wallet n saw a photo!!!! this photo was taken just few weeks. she was hugging a malaysian man in the hotel room.
i was so upset about it n confronted her when she finish bathing.
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Post by bahnoo on Aug 18, 2006 2:15:40 GMT 7
We have a big quarrle n then i started to bring everything out what my friend's told me.
I said did u sleep with ur good friend when i went back to malaysia. she @ first deny. i said dont come n bluff me, i know everything already. i ask u again did u sleep with ur good friend when i go back.
She admit it. my heart was so painful when she said that. i ask her why did u do that to me. she kept quiet. i said do u know how much i love u. u bring me see ur relative when they are in h. city n we have planned to get married in singapore why u do this behind me. she kept quiet.
then i ask her. how about this malaysia guy. she said she like this guy. i said u dont love me @ all. she said no. i was sooooo sad. is like a knife stab into my heart n let me bleed to death.
so i have a big fight with her n she run into the toilet n cry.
then later she came out n wanted to leave. i beg her not to leave me n be with me for another 4 days b4 i go back. i told her i really love her n ask her not to leave me. so she stayed n we make love but she did not take the pill anymore.
the most hurting was when after the quarrle. we went to sleep, she was still crying on the bed. in the middle of the nite, the cb malaysian guy call my room n looking for her!!!!!! i dont know why i pass the phone to her but i did. she talk to the guy n start to giggle. u know how was the feeling like. i dont know how to express it, it really sucks. i feel like a sucker......
but i really love her too much so i try to see whether we can go on. so the last 4 days i try to make things better but seems that she dont want the relationship anymore. we still make love but she stop taking the pills.
After i went back to singapore. few mths later i hear from my friend's tirak that she was preg and she also kanna bluf 30k or 50k baht from the malaysia guy. the guy ask her borrow from okt n she borrow.... then the guy f o.
after 1 yr she give birth to a baby boy. well im not sure who's baby is that it could be her good friend/ malaysian guy or me.
cos the time she got preg. was the last time i was with her. the time frame was ard there.
i wanted to see her so i ask my friend's tirak to arrange for me to meet her but she refuse to see me anymore. i was still very upset even im back in singapore.
Then my friend tirak told me that actually the good friend of my tirak was just having fun with each other. they are not serious @ all. just sex to make each other happy only......
anyway it hurt me very badly, i was so sad till i cant work. i start to drink like mad in the disco. everyday u can see me in disco drinking after work. it takes me 7yrs to heal. that is how bad i was affected.
that was my first exp. with a thai girl. so i tell myself never believe them cos i will get hurt if i start again. so during the 7yrs i go GL n h. city whenever i call a girl i never believe what they said. but there was really a thai girl really love me, 1997 a girl fall for me n quarrle with her okt bcos of me. i was so pai sei cos the okt i know him very long liao.
she wanted me nothing else. but i tell myself no way i going to believe that so i chop n move on. she cried.
she really a nice girl. she from isan. but i was really scare i dont want to get hurt so i ran away from this relationship n meet another girl. she from vietnam. working in KTV. she was very famous there. no1 there in fact. so i book her for the nite n came to know she just broke up with her sgp bf n she was so upset n went for booking.
after that day booking, i been looking up for her n care for her. i went to her room after her work. after the last time i book her. she stop going out with man for booking. why cos i was with her most of the time. even @ work. she come back to see me every 10min. everyday i in ktv. till i kanna banned there lol cos i was screwing another viet girl in the ktv room.
she then decided to stop work on friday, saturday n sunday. just to be with me. monday to thursday she work. when reach home give me a call or i go fetch her after her work.
3mth later she ask me to go back vietnam with her. i said for what. she said she have save enough money to buy us a house n 1 for her mom. n still have enough $$ to setup a small business for both of us. she wanted me to marry her there n have a small family there. cb i got scare again cos it remind me of my ex tirak. so i choose the road to run. giving excuse saying i go hongkong n work for 1yr n then i lost contact with her cos after that she went back to vietnam n try contacting me but i refuse to answer her call.
3 yrs later in 2001, i saw her in ktv again. my friend like her wanted her to sit with him but when she come in she saw me n was so happy n jump to me. my friend got a shock, he ask me u know her. i said yes she is my gf lol
well she wanted to be together but i rejected cos i just started a new relationship with another thai girl. my viet girl got so sad and i told her why are u here for. u here to earn money why are u talking about love. i do like u but we cant be together. i want u to earn money n go back vietnam n never come back work in this line anymore cos whenever i see u working here it make me sad.
NB Next thing i know she went to work in JJ. my friend came to me n f me up said what did u tell her on that day. said she went to JJ n work. I was WTF. when i go there i saw her n she saw me. she was so scare n worry, she start to hide herself from me but cant avoid me so no choice she decide to hack care n started to ask guy to go up to screw her. within 3 hrs she have 6 guys book her to the hotel. i feel so bad but i have no choice it not my call...
I already have a tirak so i cant be with her @ all.
I will carry on with my 2nd tirak later.....
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Post by kwanteen on Aug 18, 2006 11:19:54 GMT 7
*sop*...*sop*...so sad n touching... ...can't wait for the next episode of ur love life journey.... ;D.....quick tell us more...
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Post by bahnoo on Aug 18, 2006 11:28:11 GMT 7
nb si big boss come di siao siao >,<
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Post by tuborg on Jan 24, 2007 12:12:32 GMT 7
Good write-up and good true life experience. Conclusion is still good to just have fxx, fxxx, and forget.. . Having feelings with WL is a no no.
There could be exception, but I think not many good outcome have resulted from such relationships.
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