Cheated by a "decent" Thai girl.

[bahnoo]

Posted in old sawadee forum by weeliano

Just want to warn everybody about this scheming woman. I'm reproducing this article from the blog site.

"Yes its true, the love of my life turned out to be no good two or possibly three timing confidence trickster. Why didn't I see through her charade immediately earlier on in the "relationship". I should have listened to my parents and well-meaning friends, but when you are so deeply in love with someone, you tend to overlook the inconsistencies. The news came today and it came on me like a 2 ton iron ball smack on my head. I was dumbfounded, I was shattered. I couldn't believe that someone I love unconditionally could do this to me. Right now I am going through a roller coaster wave of emotions, trying to console myself that its better the relationship ended earlier than later, yet feeling angry that I am cheated at the same time.

How can you do this to me Aoy? After all I the love and financial support that I've given you. Have you no common decency to
even inform me that you have found someone else better and wish to end our relationship? You just took off like that, not a word, not a hint of conscience. If I didn't wise up and hired a private investigator to find out what you were up to, I wouldn't have found out. To think that I even prayed that you are alright in the 2 months I can't contact you. You are trully a cold- blooded, conniving, evil, selfish person. You will get your desserts in the end. Let me just say that all the money I have given you is totally wasted on all your fabricated lies. Yes you spun a very convincing tale, and I was a fool to have believed in you. A fool in love. You told me that your sister needed a notebook, I scrimped and saved to get you one, and in the end you used it yourself instead. Instead of feeling suspicious I acted if there's nothing out of the ordinary. I have spent hours configuring the damn notebook so that you can type in your native Thai and this is the reward I get. The story you spun about you having to pay off your dead father's loans was very good, your acting should earn you an Oscar, your crying really had me on. I'm pretty sure that I am not the only person that you lied to. I have faithfully sent you a substantial amount of money to maintain your ill- gotten lifestyle. Someday, you will pay. You owe me big Aoy, a debt so huge that you won't be able to pay it off in several life times. I am glad that I woke up from this smokescreen and black magic you have conjured on me. I am glad that with God's help that I can find a good Private Investigator to reveal you true villainess ways. Karma will take its course, what comes around comes around. You will get what you deserve Aoy, and then No One will feel sorry for you. You played with men's feelings for your own monetary gains, remember you will be played by men in the future.

Let's hope that my experience will warn others about these deceptive people. I was too trusting and honest to believe her
words. I was too smitten to make a correct judgement. I should have thought with my brains and not my nuts. In the Chinese saying " Lose a Fortune to Prevent a MisFortune", I believe my monetary lost is a positive sign. I can imagine that if I were to take her as my wife, I can't guarantee that she won't return to her trickster ways. I should have wizened up immediately when she asked me for financial help. She is one scheming woman, she waited for the right opportunity and struck when the least you expected. She is a evil serpent.

Nationality - Thai, Hometown - Chiangmai, Profession - Hotel industry,
Sideline - Professional Confidence Trickster"

Let this serve as a warning to all who thinks that "decent" Thai women are a good catch.

[kwanteen]

>>Let this serve as a warning to all who thinks that "decent" Thai women are a good catch.<<

such warning can be applicable anywhere in this world including here in Sg leh... ;D but the friendly warning a bit one-sided, izzit the true version or probably inflated by a few notch...

[adl3317]

Friend no worry .....you just being UNLUCKY ....but life go on and on brother ...do not gave up ...look for the future

[xforce]

Hi All Bros

Happy to be bk,sad to know there are still ppl being cheated by the above mentioned.Tink it till boils down to Neber judge its book by its cover kind of philosophy.

Lets be fair to the thais,in this world and i mean every part of the cheongster world ther bounds to have some spoiled apple,be it thai,sin,indo or viet....one must know the true intention of himself,we thingy blame it on the gals,is their 'tang jia'weapon...like wat cantonese says...buffalo dont drinks water,how u want to push its head to drinks...sori if i've offended sum one by quoting this phrase...when we cheong we must always tink of wat we want and when we want,wat to do and when to do...like going into relations lah....!

Lets say that once we r still cheonging,be it lau chiau or newbies,we r still in danger of being fall into the so called 'trap',but the trap might be good for sum,might nt be too gd for sum...so in a nutshell...play hard n play safe tats all...thanks n hope it helps.

xforce

[bahnoo]

xforce said:

Hi All Bros

Happy to be bk,sad to know there are still ppl being cheated by the above mentioned.Tink it till boils down to Neber judge its book by its cover kind of philosophy.

Lets be fair to the thais,in this world and i mean every part of the cheongster world ther bounds to have some spoiled apple,be it thai,sin,indo or viet....one must know the true intention of himself,we thingy blame it on the gals,is their 'tang jia'weapon...like wat cantonese says...buffalo dont drinks water,how u want to push its head to drinks...sori if i've offended sum one by quoting this phrase...when we cheong we must always tink of wat we want and when we want,wat to do and when to do...like going into relations lah....!

Lets say that once we r still cheonging,be it lau chiau or newbies,we r still in danger of being fall into the so called 'trap',but the trap might be good for sum,might nt be too gd for sum...so in a nutshell...play hard n play safe tats all...thanks n hope it helps.

xforce

lol like me lor still a carrot with my present girl kekeke. she think she smart but she forget i kanna bomb blast many times lol all their tricks i see until sian

ah ya it all voice down whether the guy want to sweep the dust under the carpet if he wants to do that then mai blame the girls cos it us who choose to ignore n let the girl con us.

guys are always like a carrot in the eyes of the girls. green on the head, orange on the body lol.

i dont deny there is good girls ard but u just have to see it for urself n hope that she is true to u.

i also dont agree pple putting blame on them cos we guys also f ard n bluff their heart n then throw them aside after playing. it take 2 hands to clap.

she also think how sure u really love her. other guys also kohor her pretending to love her very much in the end she also kanna blue black so both side also scare each other being bluff n kohor.

so if u really love her then bring her back to show that u really love her. risk is always there it up to oneself whether he or she wanted to take the risk or not.

for me i look c look c maybe i will take the risk with my present girl. time will tell. i let nature take it cause. not like last time i take it so positively n later get blue black. fall into the pit n take me awhile to climb back up n start over again.

I have talk to many bros who kanna blue black, fall into the pit not able to climb up by themself. what we can do is to encourage them n try to lend a helping hand to put him back up.

Each of us have our past with a TG be it a decent or WL. we just have to see it another angle. yes we are not trying to ask the guys try to deny the fact that WL bluff guys but we are just asking u to see it as a whole picture what actually happen n what makes this to happen.

i myself have seen too much until now i also bo care liao. u talk serious then i serious. u mai serious then i also mai serious lor i just be with u till i find a better one then i just said thanks for everything n i just move on with my new one.

in the end it her who feel the impact not us. they will feel that they really move the wrong step n it the end for them to really have a good life. of course la they will still move on n find new carrot or maybe manage to get a guy to marry them but it going to be hard liao.

[kyorii]

I believe for all the brothers that could speak pasad thai had more or less experienced the "trick" and all the oscare winning stories.

Personally, I agreed with brother Xforce. We must know ourself, what we actually want, and is it what we want deep down. The safest side is to think of it in some sort of a bargain. If you get a good bargain, dont take advantage of it and dont take pride at it. If you got a bad bargain, dont blame anything besides yourself, learn it by heart and get up and go hunting again.

If anyone would want to be a snake charmer, you better be used of the venom.

But on the other hand, they (Thai girls) came from a completely different environment and culture. They percieve things very different from us and know what and when to do or say the right thing. For a simpler thumb rule, just put yourself in their shoes and treat them how you want to be treated in return. If she is here all alone with you, give her your full attention. Treat her well but it is also good to let her know, she's not the only one you can go to. In that way, they will not take so much advantage of you and most important, she WILL put in more effort to win you over.

This is of course my opinion and theories. All feedbacks are welcome but i hope you guys dont flame me.

Chok Dee Na Krup.

[bahnoo]

Hi Kyorii

dont worry there wont be flaming here. i dont really allow that to happen here.

I believe we are old enough to share and not here to flame each other.

yes i do agree with u. if u want to go into a thai relationship u have to be prepare n accept their culture and the way they think.

[ahhuat]

kyorii said:

Treat her well but it is also good to let her know, she's not the only one you can go to. In that way, they will not take so much advantage of you and most important, she WILL put in more effort to win you over.

Chok Dee Na Krup.

well after few experiences i still find it difficult to blend into their culture & lifestyles. Have spent too much time & efforts over the years. finally i decided to call it off but wouldn't want to hurt the party. Kind of dilemma at this stage because this thai gal is very dependent on me emotionally.how to break the news to her...as i looking for someone better locally.. Will leave it to fate then

[kyorii]

Im so sorry to hear that, Bro. If you think the relationship is not progessing well, then you may haf to break the news. Somehow, I'm sure she'll manged the breakup eventually. Be strong, bro.